Last week was one of those weeks. One of those hectic, long, but seemingly gone in a blink of an eye type of weeks. I took a minute to document what my wife and I juggled over a four-day stretch:
This was all incremental to my wife’s standard demanding role as a small business owner and my full workload, which included preparing for and facilitating a day-long, in-person workshop for my team. The above is staggering and makes my head hurt a bit. How did we pull this off? Somehow we limped through, but none of this is to brag. If you’re reading this, you’ve had one of these weeks also. We've all been there. But this reflection was actually therapeutic for me. As working parents, we should take more moments to pat ourselves on the back for all that we do. It’s not always smooth. In fact, this 96 hours certainly came with lost sleep, sore throats and likely more gray hairs. But take stock of the accomplishments periodically. I'm curious how it makes others feel. For me, it made me simultaneously overwhelmed and proud. The added novelty of this week was the light at the end of the tunnel: a much needed weekend away with just my wife in Sedona, Arizona was our reward. This was our second attempt at taking this trip. We postponed it from early November after my daughter was sick the previous week, who then got me sick, and then inevitably, you guessed it, my wife eventually fell ill. I can tell you all about how awesome Sedona is. I can also preach to you about the importance of time with just your spouse, sans kids. This is well documented, and you don’t need to hear this from me. I’m ashamed to admit this was the first time we got away just the two of us in over two years. But clearly all parents are juggling a lot, so it's not always easy to get away. I'm also incredibly thankful for the army of family members that juggled and cared for my kids to make this all possible - especially after getting through an eventful week. In the wise words of The Dadass Matt Lofy himself, stay strong. Do whatever you can to keep your head above water for the kids, but enjoy the important, well-earned, few and far between downtimes with your spouse. -Steve Michalovich, founder, CBUS Dads
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We get to talk to a lot of informed, interesting and inspirational people at CBUS Dads. One topic we didn't know much about is pelvic health - that is until we connected with Molly Bachmann PT, DPT. We gave her the floor to explain to our community the importance of pelvic health for our children, our spouses and lastly, men.
You probably have heard of physical therapy for knee injuries while playing sports or back injuries from sitting too long at work. Did you know there is also pelvic floor physical therapy for urinary, bowel and sexual dysfunction as well as pelvic pain? Let’s start with what the pelvic floor is. The pelvic floor is 3 layers of muscle that sit at the base of the pelvis. Their most important job is to keep our organs in place and keep us upright as they work with other postural muscles. They are unique in that they surround the urethral opening, go up to the base of the penis and clitoris, surround the vaginal opening, and surround the rectum. These muscles are part of what keeps us peeing and pooping regularly and what allow us to experience pleasure with intercourse. Physical therapists undergo advanced post-graduate education in pelvic floor anatomy and physiology to help meet the pelvic health needs of patients. Considering the field of physical therapy as a whole, pelvic floor physical therapy is a more recent, but a quickly emerging field. We can help people recover from symptoms that stem from impairments in the musculoskeletal, nervous, reproductive, urologic, and gastrointestinal systems. Pelvic health symptoms generally fall into a few categories: bladder, bowel, sexual dysfunction, and pelvic pain. The symptoms may develop for many different reasons, including injury, trauma, surgery, medication-induced, pregnancy, stress, menopause, overuse - just to name a few. Pediatric Pelvic Health Many children suffer from bladder/bowel voiding dysfunction. In fact, 20 percent of all pediatric visits are for incontinence problems. The good news is that non-invasive physical therapy techniques are highly effective for these disorders. The umbrella term for difficulty with bladder/bowel control in children is “dysfunctional voiding.” Below is a list of different diagnoses that fall under dysfunctional voiding:
Physical therapy helps with each of these issues through a myriad of ways. After an assessment, the therapist will determine the best approach for each child. Sometimes this may involve direct pelvic floor exercises, others may involve addressing gaps in developmental milestones, modifying toileting behaviors and eating habits, breathing techniques or stretches to reduce pelvic floor muscle tone. Tips to help your kids gain continence and confidence in toileting:
Support for Spouses/Partners Before and After Birth The pelvic floor and pelvic girdle muscles undergo significant changes during pregnancy and labor and delivery. Optimal pelvic health during pregnancy can help reduce musculoskeletal pain and dysfunction, ease labor and delivery, and help reduce postpartum complications. In 2018 the American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology issued a statement acknowledging that postpartum care in the United States needs to be improved, suggesting the term “4th Trimester” should be used for the immediate postpartum period and that postpartum women need more care than what is currently being offered. All pregnant and postpartum women can benefit from pelvic floor physical therapy given the crucial role these muscles play during delivery and how prevalent dysfunction is after birth. Pelvic floor physical therapy reduces the risk of pelvic organ prolapse, urinary, bowel, sexual dysfunction, and pelvic pain. Similar to other diagnoses we treat, many of our patients tell us they wish they knew about us sooner. During pregnancy, our bodies undergo significant changes as the pregnancy progresses. Many women experience symptoms that pelvic floor physical therapy can address. Fortunately, some women tolerate pregnancy very well and experience no unwanted symptoms. For these women, pelvic floor physical therapy can help with optimizing pelvic floor motor control to aid in labor and birth and improving pelvic floor and pelvic girdle neuromuscular function to reduce pain and dysfunction in the postpartum period. All new moms should undergo an evaluation with a pelvic floor physical therapist. Ideally, this evaluation would take place in the first year following delivery, however, it is never too late to see a pelvic floor physical therapist. Postpartum pelvic floor physical therapy can help with:
Tips to help your partner/spouse before and after birth:
Men’s Pelvic Health Don’t forget, you have a pelvic floor too! Studies have revealed that due to pelvic floor dysfunction, 10 percent of men will encounter symptoms of pelvic pain. Due to misdiagnosis, many patients are prescribed antibiotics thinking they have prostatitis. Physical therapy that is focused on pelvic floor muscle training is the answer. Some symptoms of pelvic floor dysfunction are:
Causes of Pelvic Pain:
Tips for maintaining pelvic health:
To learn more about pelvic health, you can find Pelvic Health and Rehabilitation Center on Instagram, YouTube and our website. If you think you may need an evaluation, call our office. |
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